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Are there commonly used words to denote different gradations of friendship in English?

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00:00 Are There Commonly Used Words To Denote Different Gradations Of Friendship In English?
00:49 Accepted Answer Score 16
01:07 Answer 2 Score 15
02:07 Answer 3 Score 3
02:25 Answer 4 Score 8
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ACCEPTED ANSWER

Score 16


I think they might be: 1. Acquaintance 2. Friend/buddy/mate 3. Best friend

I know the last one may not be a true synonym, but it's the best I've got.




ANSWER 2

Score 15


Here's a few colloquialisms to add to the spectrum:

  • Friends with benefits: A sexual or near-sexual and emotional relationship between two people who don't expect or demand to share a formal romantic relationship.
  • Frenemy: A portmanteau of the words fr(iend) and enemy, the term frenemy refers to someone who pretends to be a friend but actually is an enemy—a proverbial wolf in sheep's clothing in the world of friendships.
  • BFF: (Best Friend Forever) Slang used primarily in the USA by teenage and young adult women to describe a girl friend or close best friend.
  • Brother from another mother: a good friend that is more like a brother.
  • Wingman: a friend (male) who helps you find a sexual partner for the night by speaking highly of you.

sources: Wikipedia and The Online Slang Dictionary

Plus a whole host of nuanced urban slang words used for friends such as cuz, homey, dawg, peeps, etc.




ANSWER 3

Score 8


Here is my list of generic words (possibly colloquial but not so recently mainstream) in the friend/enemy scale:

  • enemy
  • adversary
  • stranger
  • passing acquaintance
  • acquaintance
  • associate
  • colleague
  • ally
  • comrade
  • companion
  • friend
  • pal/buddy/mate/chum (very colloquial/somewhat male directed)
  • good friend
  • best friend

Of course, some of those in the middle have connotations that are not necessarily 'friend-like', but they fill out the interior of the scale.




ANSWER 4

Score 3


As I think Denis Leary once said,

A friend is someone who will help you move. A true friend is someone who will help you move a body.

Despite what others have said, an acquaintance is not really a friend.